Is the revelation that were not what I thought we were .. the ripping to shreds of the most important relationship in my life a good thing? Natally I have Pluto Rx Virgo with contacts by minor and major aspect to all other planets except Venus, it sits on my SO/MO MP and it is the highest planet in the chart. We have a lot of affinities. The Pluto in Scorpio generation is growing up during a time of societal decay, institutional corruption, and psychic trauma. Hes about to get married in two months, and I have a serious bf (who just bought a ring). They exude a strong sense of devotion and . and that makes perfect sense about the cancer feeling rejected and always wanting to talk about the intense emotions youre feeling. All the best. You also have an appreciation for good slapstick humor. He also has the moon and mars in scorpio in the 10th. Last Transit: Years 1984-1995. w.r.t synastry and the above statement, do you mean someone who is heavily plutonian in their natal chart, has the upper hand ? The data collected including the number visitors, the source where they have come from, and the pages visted in an anonymous form. My Pluto is Conjunct his Mercury. Often, the relationship is marked by power struggles. Any cookies that may not be particularly necessary for the website to function and is used specifically to collect user personal data via analytics, ads, other embedded contents are termed as non-necessary cookies. Also, pluto trines chiron which is right on my I.C and makes up part of a cardinal grand cross. His Mars and Uranus in Scorpio is Conjunct my Vertex in Scorpio. This well-honed mental prowess makes you a witty companion and is a positive trait to have. Growing up, did your family reinforce to you the importance of keeping certain things private? None of the aspects you mentioned would make you feel helpless, not even Moon conjunct Pluto. Pluto in Scorpio is between November 1983 to November 1995. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Tiffany, the question of karma between two charts is a complicated one. This is one of your best assets- your allure. Thanks for replying, Dawn. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, this transit . This cookie is used to determine a user's inclusion in an experiment and the expiry of experiments a user has been included in. What Im really trying to understand is what does Pluto want from Moon.. sometimes i think that maybe is more like a pleasure being hurt or make him feel hurt by me i never understood that. yes, over emotional,intense&hard to handle are definitely words that my friends would use to describe me as well. hello Dawn. Pluto in . When one persons Pluto aspects the other persons Sun, Moon, Venus, you have a plutonic relationship. ruler and the sun is mine asc. Its hard because there are a lot of great things about her, but because this effects me very intensely in a negative way emotionally it negates a lot of it. Thats not the whole chart just the highlights. With Pluto in Scorpio, you are a natural born empath. I wish you luck. Also, it only proves how you can go to extremes in nature. All rights reserved. You can find them here: https://theinnerwheel.com/2009/10/01/synastry-q-a-planets-in-houses/, https://theinnerwheel.com/2010/07/27/synastry-studies-the-role-of-the-houses/. At some level, Pluto, Neptune and Uranus are asking us to let go of the mundane and replace it with the extraordinary, and if we let go of possessiveness and fear, we can embrace a type of exchange that is unusual, but extremely rewarding. We also have Venus (he) trine Pluto (me). Hes frustrated because hes a baby and hes learning how to do everything for the first time. My main and most important question is: do I need this experience (again) or should I walk away (if I am able to)? Religion and Spirituality. A Scorpio woman is always changing, evolving, and growing. Deep and passionate discussions can occur, and such exchanges of communication will elicit responses from one or both of them who are adamantly committed to previously held ideas, thoughts, or beliefs that explain their positions and keep them safe. But on the whole, if a persons Pluto makes aspects to the inner planets of another person, particularly the hard aspects, the Pluto person will make the other person feel as if they are not in control of the situation. Pluto will explore that planets depths and seek out what isnt working. Regardless if you are a man or woman. Pluto rules Scorpio. Since you seek out only whats real and true. This phase in human history saw a re-evaluation of personal relationships and gender politics. Thanks for God, our synastry is harmonius and strong next to the pluto also. It's believed this group of souls are individually challenged to purge negative thoughts and emotions that are seen as limitations to the soul's progression in spiritual growth. Life may be divided into before and after this Pluto contact. Then Pluto will hang on until its mission is accomplished, no matter the suffering. This one is very obvious as a commitment, in being official. My boyfriend has his pluto in 4th house conjunct mars in scorpio and is an Aquarius sun/moon. Having Saturn trine from 12th house applauding to go for it while Neptune deceiving in a poetic way. Great article! I was in a confused place until I found this article. Im back to inquire about my case. And like its modern planetary ruler, Scorpio is associated with equally heavy themes. Hello, Iam so new to this and I really need someone to explain to me what is going on with me and this guy we have pluto trine venus and venus conjuct mars and he is the pluto one and the mars one and Im the venus one in both cases, at first he seemed interested and now he is only playing some psychological games as you mentionned and Im plutonian myself but Ive been there done that and I dont like how things are going, it seems to me that he always bursts when I least expect it here is our full synastry chart would you please give me some insights. A couple with composite Pluto in the 3rd house will have themes in their former life relationship that focus on a couple who wished to deepen their partnership via intensive studies of one anothers psyche in order to grow together. Very disruptive as well. Welcome to the site, Michelle. He can be a healer, allowing new growth, or he can be a thug, leaving us lying battered in the street. In the 7th House, marriage reigns supreme. Are you able to get past all the doom and gloom of Scorpio? Where I was coming to though. I have been thinking about it as well. To begin with . also, on the compposite we have venus opposite pluto. Because the inner planets are so immediate and conscious, they will have a greater understanding of the way Pluto must transform, and inner transformation is ultimately what Pluto is after (after the death and rebirth, that is). It all comes down to whether or not you want to live with this energy pattern on a daily basis, because it doesnt really transformPluto is always testing. Pluto and power will still be an issue, however. As always, its impossible to take individual synastries into consideration. You must be right about me projecting it on my nephew. The concept of the Souls Evolution through Relationships raises a number of fascinating issues. I have Pluto in the 1st in Libra, opposite both Venus and Mars in the 7th in Aries. You may be in a major cycle of change, and need to have a full reading, including progressions, to understand it. I love reading all your articles, especially those about pluto. Good! An excellent description of a Scorpio woman would be the ever-changing one. I dont know, but it looks a little scary to me. Through synastry, you can see which part of their partner Pluto seeks to control. They also expect the world to bend to their wills; learning it doesnt is a long, painful lesson. These cookies ensure basic functionalities and security features of the website, anonymously. Someone who was demanding and controlling of other peoples valuable time and energy. That dissolving feeling is usually not Pluto, but Neptune or Pisces. For entertainment purposes only He will, as he gets older, have to learn to deal with this Plutonian torrent. In this respect, your stubbornness is at the highest level. sun in taurus opposite moon in scorpio (north node conjunct sun and south node conj the moon) His Mar/Pluto conj in Scorpio falls into my 5th and conjoins my Neptune Rx. You hate forced recognition and attention. Occasionally, I wonder if it has anywhere to progress toward, or if this analytic dancing is in perpetual motion and does not need to change. Dawn, do Pluto relationships have any positive aspects, positive aspects, are they always about destruction, transformation and endings? Im learning to no matter what i do. Even our chart rulers and leading planets are in mutual reception. If Pluto is not very influential in a chart, there will be less of a drama surrounding Pluto, but astrological laws still apply, and outer planets influence inner. Even pinpoint the precise emotions associated with these specific chapters. sounds impossible to believe that this could be a good thing. Venus Conjunction Mars 0.55 161 Below are the key aspects : Or maybe the death of a dearly beloved totally turned your life around. Scorpio Compatibility. In this way, they have gained a better objective understanding of one another, or they have developed a strong emotional attachment to one another and pledged to remain close friends in following lives. There is no desire for it to end. This cookie is installed by Google Analytics. In this time there is a very powerful, strong, and magnetic presence within you. Pluto in the 7th House and Partnerships. Ruthless is the word that comes to mind again. Telling that person to take a hike, asap. What does it take to be a Pluto in Scorpio man? I have a scorpio stellium including venus, jupiter, and north node in 6th including mercury in libra. I feel intense attraction but i also feel control, mind games, and manipulation. If you have anything in Capricorn in the Tenth House of your birth chart, it has been personal. Secrets they hid from you? . It has something related to stepping on the comfort zone to achieve my goal even when I achieve it. But the pathway may involve some kind of annihilation, humbling loss of power, or confrontation with death itself. You feel irrational ans cannot explain why you feel the way you do. As you know only recently did I find out about my Plutonian character. it can be your undoing as you hoist people on to pedestals that they may or may not deserve. Whether its your physical appearance, your attitude, or your way of thinking. Like a friend getting that new Tesla, or that Monique Lhuillier dress youve been dying to have. What intrigues me most is the relationship I have with a man who is my friend. What if a persons pluto in scorpio conjuncts the other persons north node? The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Performance". But what you may find as you grow and evolve through the years is that you will go through many distinctive endings and beginnings. hi reeti, There is no trine stronger than a conjunction. Pluto is one of the most infamous planets in astrology. The stellium is 12th/1st house cusp (sun, asc, moon , mars conj in Leo) prettily tightly squared pluto in scorpio. Plus urunaus in aries in the 4th house square pluto. Regardless of its astronomical classification, Pluto counts as a planet in astrology, even though traditional astrology doesnt use it. I am a 46 year old Pagan female in a same sex partnership the past 5 yearsOddly enough her Pluto and Uranus Conjuncts my Venus plus her Pluto Squares my Ascendent (a mirror image of my Natal) and her Pluto Inconjuncts my Moon you talk about being dropped into the middle of Guerilla warfare, my psyches splayed out, all my landmarks and defense mechanisms gone with nothing to guide me home but I did and I continue to fight Pluto again and again Your email address will not be published. Whatever the aspects, Pluto strips away the ineffective coping mechanisms and false confidences of any planet it touches. Pluto has the tendency to use its penetrating insight as a weapon. Naturally, Pluto's manifestation is determined by our grade of evolution. My sun, mercury, venus are in the 9th house so YES I LOVE to travel and am always thinking where I can go next. Furthermore, the typical boundaries that exist between siblings have been breached, and there has been sexual intercourse. 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